People-Pleaser means a person who wants to keep everybody happy & who is willing to do whatever it takes! Well, “keeping people happy” is good while “willing to do whatever it takes” is not! If you are trying to meet everyone’s expectations from you, you will end up having no time for yourself leaving you unhappy in the race of fulfilling other’s wishes. You need to learn to “say no”. Saying yes to everything is not an indicator of your confidence, smartness & importance, it’s silly instead. You need to prioritize things. Exam preparation or movie with friends, Saving money or family trip with credit card & loan, saying yes or no to your boss for the next assignment when you already have projects sucking your time – It’s all up to you. Remember: If you try to please everyone, you will end up pleasing nobody as you will not be able to do anything properly. Saying yes to everything will also going to hamper your productivity as pressure of doing so many things will not let your brain work properly. In short People-Pleaser = Joker. Good Luck.
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